My daughter is 45 years old ans suffered a stroke on the 7th of december, now her health care is running out and she can no longer stay in a rehabilitation hospital they want to send her home, she can not walk, she paralized on the left side, she has a great husband but will lose his job if he takes anymore time off and they have a two year old little girl, they can not afford to hire anyone to come in and help and what do you do when you have gone thru your whole family taking turns to take care of her at different times of the day. most of us have jobs and have to work to pay our own bills and then go and be with her for hours and still get up to go to work, some of us are not strong enough to lift her, to the chair then lift her to the potty and then back again, we need help, I do not think her father and her brother are going to help her clean herself after going to the potty. if anyone has any information on home care for the disabled that is not a senior but a woman of 45 years old, we need someone who can help cook for her, take her to the bathroom, help dress her and lift her into and out of the bed or wheel chair. she was before this stroke a kindergarden teacher she has been teaching for 16 years and one morning she coughed and boom the stroke happened. they call it a hemoragic stroke.